Today's post is by Winnie. She is a full time working mom, and has a daughter and son, aged two years and four months respectively. She home teaches and is a
firm believer of play and the great outdoors. She shares her parenting and home
teaching adventures at "Toddly Mummy". I especially love the crafts that she has been doing with her kids!
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I have always loved kids and in my younger
days, I had even wanted to be a mother by the age of 25. But as fate would have
it, that did not happen till ten years later. Would I have been prepared for
the trials and tribulations of being a mother at 25? I do not know. But I do
know that motherhood has changed me in ways I could only imagine, changes that
both delight me and have me wishing for the good old days of singlehood. There
are just so many things that I have discovered about myself that still
surprises me to this day. Here is my top ten list:
1. My time is no longer my time, and
me-time, even ten minutes in the bathroom, is a privilege. All of my time now
belongs to the kids, husband, parents, parents-in-law and everyone else.
2. I have always taken pride in my high
tolerance level. Nothing could rock my calm demeanor, until the kids came.
Being able to keep calm and tolerate an endlessly screaming child takes nerves
of steel. I am glad my nerves have become stronger than steel.
3. Motherhood has given me the
transformation skills of a chameleon. I can be grumpy one minute, but break
into a megawatt smile the moment I see my kids. I simply cannot resist toothy,
and toothless, grins.
4. Yes, I am truly better skilled than a
chameleon. My moods change even faster than it can change colour. One second
I'm mad with my kids and the next, I'm calm as a dove, speaking to them in a
soothing tone, so they will calm down.
5. I may be lying in bed desperately
wishing for a wink. The moment my kids call for me, I am off the bed in an
instant, miraculously filled with endless energy.
6. Motherhood has brought out the inner
child in me. I pretend play by climbing a balloon tree, or transform into a
butterfly by wrapping a towel around me. My imagination is being stretched
beyond imagination.
7. I love books. Suspense, thriller,
mystery, adventure books are what I like, but give me any book, and I will
devour it. These days, I'm only devouring children's books, dramatising the
stories within on the stage that is the bedroom.
8. I never had a thing for art and crafts.
My best drawing: stick men. My kids brought out the hidden artist in me. To
them, mummy's art and crafts are always the best. Always creative. Even if it
is just made out of recycled toilet paper roll and egg cartons.
9. I have been stretched, my boobs have
been mutilated, and still are being mutilated. Yet, I don't mind. I really
don't. I enjoy it. It is my special bond that I share with my kids, something
that is just between us, something that no one else has. I never knew this
could be such a extraordinary feeling.
10. I knew a mother is devoted to her kids,
but till I became one, I never realised just how devoted I could be. My world
more than revolves around them.
So there. The ten discoveries I made of
myself after being a mother. Would I have it any other way? No. Definitely not.
I'm a mother. I may roar, but I'm full of love. Unconditional love.
How has motherhood changed you? Link-up below if you have a story to share!
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